Ok, I know most people have more then or then just a sleep or bondage for me I have a sleepy fetish and what is called a babyfur fetish. Most people get the wrong idea about babyfurs or infantilists. If you watches SCI they already got it on a wrong start. Most think we are pedophiles whitch is untrue. We are just normal people like anyone on this forum. All we are is just people who want to be younger or babies or cubs. All of what we do does not involve children at all. So ya, it's not a crime to wear diapers or use baby type items. Sorry if I sound a little defensive about this. Its a touchy subject. Anyway I just explained my other fetish. so who else has other fetishes?

The fetish you described...I've never heard of it before!
Besides sleepy and bondage, I have a minor "girls in boots" fetish. I love seeing girls wearing boots! But I don't know if you can count that as a "fetish", since it's actually quite common.

That is interesting. I think its actully a cute fetish. I forgot to add this in my last post but being a baby fur is infantilist is not always a sexual thing. for many its a way to relief stress or find comfort. The reason why I started or the others like me is still a mystery. The only common thing I have seen with people like me have been abused physically, sexully or seen trauma. Like for me, I wasnt abused as a child just had a hard time going to school with no my family having no work. But when you lose your brother and watched him die for three years. It has a major affect on you. Whats worse yout hink you could have done more you but you couldnt. Sorry to everyone who might find it odd or even creeped anyone out. I just thought since I am pat of a forum with a fetish that I doubt is widely excepted I thought I mention mine. PS. One of the best forums I have gone too. Its not overrun with trolls or flame wars.

Wow, that's very deep. I know we're starting to get off topic, but how did your brother pass away? It must be tough to lose a sibling. I myself have a younger brother.

And thanks for saying this is one of the best forums. It just started a month ago, so there hasn't really been much going on here. I guess we all just get along!

It was a tough for me. My older brother was my best friend. We did everything together. Even saved me from sucide. my brother died of Cancer. I look back thinking thinking how it took 3 years and 10 doctors later to find one of the easiest cancers. It was testesticlar cance (I may have spelled it wrong).
So I watched for three more years of chemo,surgery and surgery, untill the final one. It Took two weeks to pass away. It was very hard to deal with. I got post traumatic stress dissorder form it. Ocassional flash backs too. So its major reason why I embrace being a baby fur. It's a major comfort idea for me. It's a way to turn off the negative feelings I feel some days. To forgot the past memories I hold onto but wish I never had to see. I'm really sorry for dragging this off topic. But I Thank you for your sympathy. It's more then I got from so called "friends." in real life.

I'll admit, I teared up a little when I read that. Very sorry for your loss, I have never experienced loss like that in my life.

Suicide in my opinion is not a good way to solve problems. I believe life is such a precious gift, you should never ever take it for granted.

You'll pull through this. Never forget all the memories you had with your brother. Stay strong man.

I didnt mean to turn on the water works for anyone. I sometimes have a habit of expressing too much emotion. I never forgot the good memories. I just soetimes have a hard time thinking about them without breaking down from it. But I stay strong. I contemplated suicide after his death. Now the thought doesnt cross my mind now. I realized after suicide is pointless. It's only telling others you couldnt face your problems. To all That has read my comments and Red's. I have one request. Spend as much time as you can with your family or friends, cause tomorrow aint promised to no one.

Coming back to the topic, I don't know how you told your friends or in what context, but if one of my friends told me he had a babyfur fetish/diaper fetish I would freak out. And even though it's been really hard for you, you've got to understand that fetishes in general are perceived as 'weird'. And that also and maybe even more goes so for yours. It's a hard and cruel world and it's one of the main reasons why I don't and will propably not tell anyone about this fetish. People will judge you for it and I don't blame them. It's just natural.

What I'm trying to say is that the whole situation has obviously been hard for you and that your fetish is connected to that history. However, to be upset and disapointed about your friends not understanding your fetish is unrealistic, because they can't look through your eyes and they will base their emotions on their instincts.

Well I watch who i tell I am a babyfur. My fds are ok with it. I was talking about people who just paint one the group with same brush. I mean. Just because we like bindage or KOing doesnt mean we are rapists or sickos in that matter. I do see what you mean and I understand where your coming from. I only told my one friend cause i thought he was into it. Well he wasnt and he said as long its not harming your or people have fun with it. Oh and it wasnt easy telling my friend. I had to leave him a private message.

Mine are women in turtlenecks, realistic bondage ( most bondage porn tries too hard ) and quicksand scenarios.

I guess that's freaky enough.